What Are Closing Costs and Who Pays Them?
When buying or selling a home, most people focus on the purchase price. But one of the most important parts of any transaction is understanding closing costs. These are the expenses associated with finalizing the sale, and they can add up quickly if you’re not prepared.
In Connecticut Real Estate, closing costs are typically shared between the buyer and seller, although the specific expenses each party pays can vary depending on the terms of the contract.
What Are Closing Costs?
Closing costs are the fees and expenses paid at the closing table to complete the transfer of ownership. They are separate from the down payment and can include lender fees, attorney fees, taxes, insurance, title charges, and various administrative costs.
Common Buyer Closing Costs
Buyers generally pay the majority of loan-related expenses. These may include:
- Loan origination fees
- Appraisal fees
- Credit report fees
- Homeowners insurance premiums
- Attorney fees
- Title search and title insurance
- Recording fees
- Prepaid property taxes
- Escrow account funding
In many cases, buyers can expect closing costs to range between 2% and 5% of the purchase price, depending on the loan program and transaction details.
Common Seller Closing Costs
Sellers also have expenses to pay at closing. These often include:
- Real estate commission
- Attorney fees
- Conveyance taxes
- Mortgage payoff balances
- Property tax adjustments
- Recording and administrative fees
In Connecticut, sellers are responsible for paying the state conveyance tax, which is based on the sale price of the property and can represent a significant closing expense.
Can Closing Costs Be Negotiated?
Absolutely. Closing costs are often part of the negotiation process. Buyers may request seller credits to help offset their expenses, while sellers may agree to contribute toward certain costs to help a transaction move forward.
In slower markets, seller concessions are more common. In highly competitive markets, buyers may be expected to cover more of their own expenses.
How Much Should You Budget?
One of the biggest mistakes buyers make is focusing solely on the down payment while overlooking closing costs. It’s important to work closely with your lender and real estate professional to understand your estimated cash-to-close amount early in the process.
Sellers should also review estimated net proceeds before listing so there are no surprises at closing.
The Bottom Line
Closing costs are a normal part of every real estate transaction, but they shouldn’t catch you off guard. Understanding who pays what and planning ahead can make the process much smoother.
As a professional specializing in Connecticut Real Estate, I help buyers and sellers understand every cost associated with a transaction before they reach the closing table. The more prepared you are, the more confident you’ll feel throughout the entire process.




